HotConcrete

HotConcrete OP t1_jd7f8wg wrote

I really appreciate your insight and I think you hit the nail on the head! I’ve fixed your link for those who are interested.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:Rhode_Island_state_coat_of_arms_(illustrated,_1876).jpg

It somehow makes sense that Rhode Island would have its own weird little filigree.

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HotConcrete t1_jd2u74o wrote

Reply to comment by tibbon in What do you do? by Loveroffinerthings

Because you left essentially the same comment twice.

“I’m 40. I have a historic mansion in Providence. I didn’t buy in a fancy neighborhood. I’m about 15 years into my software career. I taught myself everything I know about technology and didn’t study it in school.

I don’t have family money. I am maxing out my 401k. I’m also supporting my partner financially while she figures out her next steps. No hustle. No money from a FAANG windfall. I’m making well over 200k on my own.”

Vs

“I have a historic mansion in RI. Senior software engineer/security/operations person who is very good at their job. Didn’t buy in fancy neighborhood. No family money, and I don’t care for being entrepreneurial. I could make more likely, but I am lazy and have no hustle these days”

It’s common to downvote one of these comments.

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HotConcrete t1_jc2shzx wrote

Hey OP, can I give you some unsolicited parenting advice? When my first kid was the same age as yours is, my wife and I loved going to restaurants. We kept a shoebox of rarely-used toys that we would bring with us: play doh, board books, a big crayon or other interesting things. As we were sitting at the restaurant, every 5 minutes or so we’d give him a new thing from the box and remove the old one. It was a pretty easy way to keep him entertained and let us actually talk to each other.

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HotConcrete t1_j9viumi wrote

I understand that you’re a layman. So am I. There were some broad generalities you’re missing though. Most bee species in the US don’t form large colonies and solitary bees are fairly common. You’d likely overlooked them thinking that they’re flies or other similar insects. They don’t sting, they don’t bite, they cause no problems. They are entirely different from honeybees that form large colonies and aren’t even native to the US.

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HotConcrete t1_j6udv41 wrote

Text and clip, just don’t text and drive your whip?

Text and cut hair, just don’t text and charioteer?

Text and chat with your tonsorialist, just don’t text and type with the motorist?

Dunno.

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HotConcrete t1_j68otxy wrote

Not this one. “Classes will be held at our new education space at 140 Marvin Road, Colchester, CT. We also offer private lessons for groups.”

It’s our local farm as long as “local” means in Connecticut 60 miles away.

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