Tea_4_thee
Tea_4_thee t1_jbit8sg wrote
I thought it was a really good exploration into the ways trauma can completely derail your life, make you act in senseless ways, and leave you stuck in this hole that seems impossible to climb out of. We watch Theo go deeper and deeper down the rabbit hole with each traumatic event until he’s a completely different person, and on a path he most likely would’ve never gone done if him and his mother hadn’t decided to take a quick detour into the museum.
It shows how one split second decision can define your entire life, how it can mold you into a totally different person.
Tea_4_thee t1_j9eaumu wrote
Reply to Are there any books that you actually would want to see figuratively or literally burned? by [deleted]
Nope, at least not in the way you mean. I have read books that were bad enough that I wanted to see my copy burned but I hate being wasteful so I put them in the little free library instead.
I’ve definitely never wanted to erase the entire existence of a book though.
Tea_4_thee t1_j98h8j5 wrote
Reply to Midwest Bookstores by TheSavoryMillennial
Minneapolis is bookstore heaven! So many independent bookstores
My favorites: magers and Quinn (used book store), irreverent bookworm (used book store), and moon palace (new books).
Tea_4_thee t1_j65smgd wrote
Reply to comment by gwaydms in TIL workers dismantling the wrecked MV Primrose off of North Sentinel Island were confronted by the isolated Sentinelese, but defused the situation by giving them bananas and letting them on board to acquire scrap metal. Workers were visited by the Sentinelese 2-3 times a month for 18 months. by CaptainJZH
They have personal experience with what the ‘blessings of civilization’ means, the first time an outsiders made contact with the tribe 6 of them (two elderly people and 4 children) were kidnapped. All 6 of them fell ill and died.
I don’t think contact with outsiders is possible for them, their immune systems can’t handle modern diseases and sickness. There’s a good chance somebody spreading a cold to them could wipe out the entire tribe.
Tea_4_thee t1_iz1o5cv wrote
Reply to Appalachian prison book project seeks notebook donations: "The books can help inmates learn new skills, broaden their worldviews and obtain college credits through the West Virginia University Higher Education in Prison Initiative" by SAT0725
For anybody who is interested in donating books to prisons, here is a list of charitable organizations that do that.
Every state has different rules, some a stricter than others. These organizations will have a better idea of how to properly distribute the books you are wanting to donate.
Tea_4_thee t1_iyaxek4 wrote
Reply to english teachers and symbolism by mzjolynecujoh
I strongly disagree with this take, authorial intent is not the end all be all. All art forms are subjective, and can have multiple interpretations.
I could go on and on but I think the essay ‘The Death of the Author’ by Roland Barthes explains it far better than I ever could.
Tea_4_thee t1_iyav2cx wrote
Reply to comment by phoenixtrilobite in english teachers and symbolism by mzjolynecujoh
And Bram Stoker was a gay man, so having symbolisms for homosexuality in his work is likely. It’s not like gay authors were allowed to write about it in an obvious way back in those days.
Tea_4_thee t1_ixwtv6z wrote
Reply to comment by Ok2BYt in Convenient Store Woman by Sayaka Murata by NotBorris
No problem!
Tea_4_thee t1_ixwmjgt wrote
Reply to comment by Ok2BYt in Convenient Store Woman by Sayaka Murata by NotBorris
It’s called convenience store woman
Tea_4_thee t1_ixvzmtg wrote
Reply to comment by Kitsik_ in Convenient Store Woman by Sayaka Murata by NotBorris
I think you’re on to something here, Almost all of these traits fit the character to a tee (the exception being secretiveness).
Tea_4_thee t1_ixvp2cl wrote
Reply to comment by [deleted] in Convenient Store Woman by Sayaka Murata by NotBorris
Yes that is mostly what I was responding to, you included it in your interpretation so I don’t think it should be surprising that somebody may have thoughts about that part of your interpretation.
>she also never cares about social norms, she only does those things to get people off her back so she can live quietly
That wasn’t my interpretation, if that was the case I don’t think Keiko would frequently seek out her sisters counsel which results in attracting more attention to her ‘weird’ habits. Regardless I don’t think social norms and rules can be considered the same thing. Of course everybody will look at things differently that’s just the nature of discussing books. I just don’t think she could be considered a sociopath, she doesn’t present the key symptoms (irritability, manipulation, risk taking behavior, arrogance, hostility, etc.) and that was my main point.
Tea_4_thee t1_ixvhnoc wrote
Reply to comment by [deleted] in Convenient Store Woman by Sayaka Murata by NotBorris
No, I wouldn’t consider traditional gender norms (oppression) to be the type of ‘rules’ (I don’t think that can even be considered a rule) that ASPD diagnostic criteria is referring to. If that was the case the entire feminist movement would check that box.
Even if those were the types of rules that the diagnostic criteria was referring to Keiko does not disregard those rules. She doesn’t understand them but she doesn’t disregard them either. she tries very hard to follow those rules. So hard she lets a random man take over her apartment in an attempt to follow those rules.
Tea_4_thee t1_ixvgsdn wrote
Reply to comment by agitprop66 in Convenient Store Woman by Sayaka Murata by NotBorris
Japan is socially conservative especially in regards to gender roles. The world economic forum ranked Japan 120th (out of 156 countries) in gender equality. Sexual assault is also a big problem in Japan, it’s prevalent enough that they have women only train cars because sexual assault on the subways was so rampant.
Based on what I’ve read on the topic, Japanese youth are rejecting a lot of the traditional values that have been prevalent in Japanese society. I think that’s why so much Japanese fiction has started to question these ideals.
Tea_4_thee t1_ixvb6jo wrote
Reply to comment by [deleted] in Convenient Store Woman by Sayaka Murata by NotBorris
A lot of the people I’ve seen speculate that that Keiko is autistic are autistic themselves so I don’t know if saying people see her that way because of harmful stereotypes is a fair assessment. For whatever reason a lot of autistic people see themselves in the character.
Keiko definitely doesn’t strike me as a sociopath, one of the main symptoms of ASPD is a disregard for rules and Keiko’s main comfort in life is following rules she cares about rules deeply. So deeply she structures her whole life around rules, that would be incredibly out of character for a sociopath.
Tea_4_thee t1_ixezbsj wrote
Reply to the secret history by donna tartt by Harvo223
It’s my favorite book, but I get it may not be for everybody.
I do think the descriptions of college life are an important part of the story, but I can see how some people may find it tireless the book is definitely very slow.
Tea_4_thee t1_iujmdv6 wrote
Reply to Do you look at page numbers when you’re purchasing a book to justify the price? by aprilhillwriting
No I just buy the books that look interesting to me. If you’re only buying books based on if you feel like there’s enough pages to “get your money’s worth” you’re gonna miss out on a lot of great books.
If you want to get the most bang for your buck buying used books is a much better way to do that.
Tea_4_thee t1_iub2hnl wrote
Reply to comment by Seminolehighlander in Nothing but Blackened Teeth by VibrantViolet
Same, the whole time I was reading it all I could think was “how the fuck did this get published”
Tea_4_thee t1_iuakbg4 wrote
Reply to Why I stopped using Goodreads by [deleted]
This honestly isn’t a problem for me, my enjoyment in the books I read doesn’t change just because I track them/don’t track them.
Tea_4_thee t1_ito4zse wrote
Reply to comment by EfficientAd9765 in Dorian Gray by JackMcBryde
I mean I’m pretty sure Henry is supposed to be a horrible person, so it makes sense. I normally love unlikeable characters so this should’ve been right up my ally, but yeah I just could not get into it.
It actually really bothers me cause I can’t quite put my finger on why I didn’t like it, I think it’s the only book I’ve disliked without being able to come up with a reason for that dislike.
Tea_4_thee t1_jefzk01 wrote
Reply to Why do some books/authors get away with "purple prose" by [deleted]
Purple prose doesn’t just mean prose that is very descriptive and verbose, purple prose is when the prose is so verbose and flowery that it becomes impossible to actually understand what’s being said. The example you listed isn’t purple prose because it is not impossible to understand the story.