What’s the deal with piece of shit men killing women when they leave him?

Power and lack of emotional guidance. Dangerous combination.

What’s the deal with piece of shit men killing?

Tbf, this is not exclusively a man thing.

This is so wild to me. She’s been cutting my family’s hair all my life. Such a nice woman. RIP

Sure, it’s just overwhelmingly a man thing.

I don’t know if you mean physical power or more social power but honestly, when men use guns like this, I don’t think it has anything to do with being more physically powerful. A woman could just as easily shoot a partner at point blank range and they don’t do it as often.

Poor emotional guidance and entitlement seem way higher in the reasons.

> According to friends and associates of Feldman, she had been in the process of divorcing her husband.

Nasty divorce? (Not speculating per se or justifying what's happened, but it could be an explanation/motive).

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What's temple have that makes you put the guy back in an ambulance and carry him further down the road

Edit: Don't need to down vote cause I don't know how hospital ratings work

I can't even fathom how shooting someone in these types of situations is considered, or thought of at all.

I wouldn't call it power, so much as I would aggression. Killing someone isn't a powerful thing, it's something that's full of cowardice

...in a Domestic dispute.

I thought there was a rule against editorialized titles?

It’s all part of the fucked up way evolution played out. For 10000 years men and women depended on physicality to get ahead until recent times (100-150yrs) where our intellect plays a larger role. Unfortunately women were usually not as physically strong and men control the power. For everyone’s sake, we are slowly evolving out of that mindset but assholes like this still exist, and you take into account poor mental health, it’s all a ticking bomb when rejection happens.

What’s the source of the aggression? Every killing has a motive, and this one is text book power and control. She rejected him, and he couldn’t control the outcome so he killed her. It’s all buried in power dynamics, control and awful emotional discipline.

Temple is a level one trauma center, while Chestnut Hill Hospital is rather small. Not necessarily that Temple has more than other area hospitals, just that CHH has less and Temple was the closest larger one

my mom was relatively close to her and got her hair cut by her for a long time.

Not a new phenomenon, sadly. Maybe on an uptick as more women have the means to leave abusive men than in the past.

bruh mods delete some of my posts in 0.3 seconds but let this shit slide? 🤔

Experience with gunshot wounds.

They mean it makes them feel powerful.

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It's been a bad few weeks for DV in the city.

The headline was changed by the site after OP posted.

So shouldn't it be reposted without the misleading old one? I've had posts removed when the site changed after posted.

Power struggle. He is angered by the fact that she is more successful in life and no longer needs him

“She really went all out. She rented an empty storefront and really slayed it for Harry Potter,” McNally said

Poor choice of words in an article of this nature.

What’s the protocol for deciding which hospital to take him to in the first place? Clearly it was a gunshot wound, why not go directly to Temple? Just CHH proximity since it was only a minute or two away?

Probably took him to CHH to stabilize him for the longer transport to Temple

there's no place like home for the holidays.

Came to say this. Zero mass shootings in 2022 were committed by women. Nationally. And while this is clearly NOT a mass shooting, gun violence as a whole is an overwhelmingly male-committed act.

It especially bums me out when it’s a murder suicide. How much of a monster do you have to be to take someone’s life and leave before you experience any consequences?

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Downvoters ought to read "Demonic Males: Apes and the Origins of Human Violence," this guy might have put this "artlessly," but their gist is correct even if the deets are off - if you want to know why men kill their mates and sometime children, you're going to have to accept some hard truths about the fact that we're still animals, first and foremost.

And this is why guns should be banned and/or why it should be incredibly difficult to obtain them. When someone has access to guns domestic violence has an incredibly high chance to end in someone being shot.

>he couldn’t control the outcome so he killed her.

That's literally aggression.

I feel like you're too caught up in the chicken/egg here, these things are intrinsically linked - frustration over rejection and power differential lead to an aggressive, deadly outburst - it's not either/or

I recall an AMA whereby a blind redditor answered blindness related questions. When asked whether and how they became blind, they quite impressively provided an unemotional account of how he was among several family members his father shot in the head while sleeping before he fled town. I'm admittedly not a parent, but I simply can't grasp why one would murder their whole family before fleeing.

Fuck, when they mentioned her daughter at the end the name sounded familiar. I was really hoping it wasn't a girl I knew in high school, but unfortunately it is her... I feel terrible.

It’s so malicious. If you hate your life and want to go fine, but leave others out of it.

We all know it depends what kind of mood the mods are in

Abusers have no empathy for others, they see themselves as victims who deserve for "justice" to be served in a way that benefits them and only them.

All aggression has a source, to understand what we do things and fix them… we need to know why.

I saw this shooting ping on my citizens app a couple night ago and was shocked to see it was at the top of the hill. That's extremely sad. What a selfish prick

And a reminder that they needlessly got rid of the Witches and Wizards festival.

For anyone curious: https://www.reddit.com/r/IAmA/comments/4o13fa/i_am_an_18_yo_blind_guy_who_was_shot_by_his/

Careful. They might consider this a “personal” attack.

Yeah I don't get the down votes...I appreciate your question and wanted to know too!

i was just reading the questions and someone asked how dating has been. he said not so great, and someone suggested he get a service dog. then, someone says he should instead get a service horse, adding, "survives getting shot, only to drown in pussy." lol

Nah just gonna blame Krasner for the headline changing since this post wanted us to get mad at him for something. May as well keep the spirit of the thread.

Freaking Krasner.

I would like to see this become a wide spread message, similar to how people are calling out who is doing the bigger mass shootings. It feels like we never get to talk about it. I love my close guy friends, my brother, many men but there is a major major socialization problem happening there and if you raise it as a topic of discussion you’re an ‘angry shrew’

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That’s awful, that’s right around the corner from my grandparent’s house, I’m wonder if they knew her. Poor woman

I got banned the other week for joking that someone key a bad parking job.

Promoting vandalism.

CHH is literally a block away. Temple is 15-20 mins. Sometimes, if the patient isn’t imminent they will attempt to make it to a level 1, but with an ER that close the hope is that they could stabilize at least enough for the short drive.

Family member was good friends with her.

When I saw this story I couldn't believe it

What a tragedy

Just why oh why, can’t they shoot themselves, FIRST?

Same thing with my mom

This is so incredibly sad.

I’m not getting the connection of editorialized titles to whether it says “domestic dispute” or not - the article said it was a murder-suicide by her husband

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Exactly that they are pieces of shit. I actually just read the article about the girl who was killed on Ellsworth and they had a graphic that shows it’s almost 50/50 male and female victims of domestic Homicide. I assume it was only the city because there were only like 43 total last year but I never thought it was anywhere near that close. I would’ve said 75/25 female tops and assumed it was even higher.