Submitted by Jazzhandsfolkfeet t3_11s5una in vermont

Our plow guy went to Aruba without telling anyone or arranging for coverage. He also turned his phone off until a few minutes ago.

We have an 8 month old baby with no way to get out of our driveway. Our driveway is about 70 meters long so it would be impossible for emergency personnel to get to us never mind the propane truck that heats our house.

Is anyone able to help with a plow? We are in the Morrisville/Hyde Park area.

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Fantastic_Painter_15 t1_jcc3m0x wrote

You live in a relatively rural part of vermont. Sometimes we gotta do things the hard way. Grab a couple shovels and get to work

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jarvisk2 t1_jcc3u8s wrote

genuinely curious, are you from out of state?

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whaletacochamp t1_jcc4ryz wrote

Yeah I hate to be like that but....i also have an 8mo old and the guy who plows my private ROAD (not even my driveway) didn't show yesterday. I was out there with my ATV plow until that broke, then I finished it off with my snowblower. Took forever and I'm sore as fuck but now my neighbors and I can get out.

But my wife and I made the decision to live out here. We have cars that can handle all but the craziest snow, we put good tires on the cars, we schedule propane delivery well before we need it and for a time where weather is not a factor, we have our own snow clearing machines and redundancies (ATV with plow, snowblower, and a good ol shovel). We also have a good rapport with neighbors who will help in an instant, including a farmer with every type of tractor and plowing implement you can imagine.

Knock on some doors, make some calls, and otherwise get to work.

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SchmeddyBallz t1_jcc526h wrote

Can you not shovel it? It wouldn't take that much to clear enough for a car to get through it. And with the coming warm period, if you get down to gravel or asphalt it'll melt quickly.

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whaletacochamp t1_jcc5p0q wrote

As a fellow infant parent who's plow guy didn't come (for our private road) - no offense but get to work. Also moving forward schedule propane deliveries well before you need it and for a day where weather isn't bad.

At the end of the day you are responsible for making sure your house is accessible. Yes you hired a plow guy but as you can see, things happen when you rely upon others. If you live in a place where you could possibly get in this situation i think it behooves you to have a level of personal preparedness.

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Kink4202 t1_jcc5ykw wrote

Wow, the responses on here are awful. You have no idea if there are physical reasons why they can't shovel, or snow blow. Maybe that's why they have someone to plow it for them. Have some compassion my fellow Vermonters.

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Sea-Election-9168 t1_jcc61jy wrote

I’m sorry, I would do it but I’m a good 50 miles away. Try Front Porch Forum.

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go2001 t1_jcc61of wrote

LOL brain was on NSFW mode when I read this title!

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Sea-Election-9168 t1_jcc6wpq wrote

C’mon folks. Save the criticism for after they get some help. In the meantime, isn’t there somebody that they can call?

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Jazzhandsfolkfeet OP t1_jcc7631 wrote

Thank you. If only I could afford an ATV with a snow plow attachment and a snow blower or have a career that allows me the time off to spend hours shoveling 3 ft of snow off a 200 foot driveway. The lack of compassion here is stunning. God forbid that someone’s Plan A and Plan B falls through and they try to use a community to come up with a viable Plan C.

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cpujockey t1_jcc76cq wrote

the post title had me confused for a sec.

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RiddleofSteel t1_jcc7uc0 wrote

It's funny, I had wanted to move to Vermont until I read this sub. Vermonters are absolutely awful if this place is any indication, and this is from a Long Islander. Think they need to revisit for the rudest state.

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greenmountaintop t1_jcc8a4s wrote

I agree. We got three feet and our plow guy had heart surgery. It is so thick and our driveway so long that a back up plow got stuck for over an hour. A shovel is a joke right now. Show some compassion people!

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SchmeddyBallz t1_jcc8ksb wrote

I think most people are just taken aback by the idea that not having someone to plow your driveway is such an emergency. Unless you are elderly or disabled of course.

Most people are used to dealing with snow...not trying to make you feel bad.

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kraysys t1_jccbpr0 wrote

Call up your neighbors and shovel out.

You don't know anybody with a plow or snowblower? You haven't stockpiled any extra propane?

230 feet of shoveling isn't exactly fun, but a grown man should be able to pretty easily do it. Get to work!

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Necessary_Cat_4801 t1_jccbx1b wrote

It's VT in 2023 so of course "I need to get to work" isn't on the list.

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kraysys t1_jccd2wd wrote

Man, 80+ hour weeks? Surely if you're putting in those hours they're compensating you well enough to be able to save and purchase a used snow blower.

It'll suck, but get a couple less hours of sleep tonight than usual and shovel out. I have many fond memories of shoveling out with my dad in the dark with some terrible headlamps after he finished up with work (too bad your 8-month-old can't yet help out lol)

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cornsnicker3 t1_jcch7vv wrote

John Deere Tractors are 0% interest for 60 months. My 2032R with rear blade can plow 200 ft of driveway in maybe 15-20 minutes.

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vtdadbod007 t1_jccjve0 wrote

So OP, what made you move to Vermont?

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RMTWHODAT t1_jccmygm wrote

When my kids were that age I'd put them in one of those packs. Do firewood, cut grass, gardening. Ahhh shoots! Now I sound like my parents. Lol. Hey good luck with your snow removal.

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whatsupbudbud t1_jccn3uy wrote

This is the Vermont version of Twitter. It's where people come to bitch and be NIMBYs about their subreddit while they complain about them.

Most of Vermont is not on r/Vermont and will go way out of their way to help people in need.

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ResponsibleExcuse727 t1_jccnook wrote

It’s just that we all have to do shitty things some times we don’t want to do. There’s a long list of driveways needed to be plowed and it would just be smarter and more efficient to do it yourself at this point. It’s a tax of living here.

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whatsupbudbud t1_jccowun wrote

OP I feel you. As a new parent at one point 8 months is a crazy hard part of being a new parent. Exhaustion fully sets in. Your coming to terms with doing everything you did before plus everything it takes to keep that little human alive and happy. (Which is typically every single unspoken minute you have that the rest of the world doesn't demand from you)

My advice would be to post of Front Porch Forum for this kind of stuff. This subreddit seems to lavish in lecturing people who are struggling by calling them incompetent or outsiders or dumb to bolster their ego about how tough they are because they live in VT. FFP will be much more helpful. I've lived in VT full time for the majority of my life and I promise you most Vermonters outside of this subreddit dont respond to request for help with lectures and "pull your self up by your fucking bootstraps attitudes"

In the mean time (not to be contrary to my point) I would do everything you can to clear out your plow pile at the end of driveway so emergency vehicles can get to you easier. But I promise you any EMT will climb that snow pile and walk to your front door if you have a 911 call.

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No-Menu-5104 t1_jccr0t2 wrote

A BIG “Have cash NEED PLOWING” sign at the end of your driveway. Someone ought to pop up.

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Jazzhandsfolkfeet OP t1_jcct8af wrote

We are all set. A friend of a friend of a friend pulled through and we were able to give him quite a bit of business for his unrelated day job.

For all of you that legitimately tried to help, thank you. To everyone else, I hope that the next time you are in a difficult position that you are able to receive help or at least empathy.

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Chance_Phone4013 t1_jccuzb0 wrote

My guy, this exact scenario happened to my wife and i last year. Long ass driveway, heavy ass snow storm, shitty ass plow driver didn't show up. We put our big boy pants on and dug a 5ft ×200ft path to the road. It took a few hours, it sucked and we were sore after but we got it done.

My wife works in a tax office. Long hours this time of year for sure. But don't tell me you can't afford an ATV with a plow. We bought one this year and she isn't even an accountant....

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Rich_Swing_1287 t1_jccwakz wrote

This thread is saltier than I-91 after a snowstorm.

I'd pile on, but my plow guy didn't show up either, and I'm now curled up in a ball underneath my kitchen table, keening.

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suzi-r t1_jccwnws wrote

Mash, it’ll get OP a thug. Suggest calling your town clerk, fire chief, auto mechanic, and others who see/know everyone if they can recommend a reliable plow driver who can come for assured payment. You may need sand, too, unless you have lots of melting the next day. Good luck to you

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suzi-r t1_jccwu5u wrote

I didn’t mean mash. I was saying, Naah.

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ripiss t1_jccydx4 wrote

Glad you got the help, and I’m a disabled veteran so I DO feel for you but I 100% get where the flak came from. Hopefully your plow guys vacations don’t line up with another monster storm haha.

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Zane42v2 t1_jccye1y wrote

Sorry but the responses here are embarrassing. VTers pride themselves on being self-reliant, but that doesn’t need to be at the expense of someone else. We don’t know the full situation and we all had our first bad winter before.

If someone is asking for help, provide help, provide ideas, ask for more info, or shut the fuck up.

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VTTreesPlease t1_jccyeft wrote

Where is the Vermont community? We help each other. That is what we do. Shame on the snide remarks. If I was 20 years younger and closer I would come to your assistance. I pray someone will reach out to you.

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Vtfla t1_jccziur wrote

Propane is auto delivery. They didn’t schedule anything. And way to be an ass to someone asking for assistance.

Not very neighborly or Vermont of you. Hope you found help OP.

Love, Gramma.

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Vtfla t1_jcd07m7 wrote

As a Vermont gramma please accept my apology for all of the assholes that have never faced a problem they weren’t prepared for. Geez, this forum is brutal. Glad you found help. Please note, we aren’t all like this!

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graysonofgotham t1_jcd17ff wrote

Yeah, I came to this thread with sympathy, I also have an infant and I shovel my 220 foot driveway every time the snow is too heavy for my snowblower…which has been the last 2 storms. I was out at 9 last night and 4 this morning. It sucks, but it’s necessary. I took some ibuprofen and I’ll still cover my baby shift tonight.

But, if I ever found myself in a situation like OP where I couldn’t do it on my own, I have 4 guys with plows and sanders in my contact list that I could call (and frequently do after we get ice storms to lay down some sand for traction.).

OP: if you read this, I realize this comment sounds sarcastic, it’s probably the dad brain… but genuine advice is this year you should get out in your community, make some friends. Join your local emergency service volunteer organization, half the guys there plow for a living, and now you have someone to call in a pinch 😂

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No-Menu-5104 t1_jcd2ej3 wrote

All I can say in response is, I understand the objective of your comment, but I wholeheartedly disagree. It is perfectly OK for two adult strangers to negotiate a deal on services for pay.

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nixxon t1_jcd568d wrote

y'all are brutal. And probably young. There's no WAY that I (not SUPER old, but old enough to have a fucked back) could shovel that much driveway. And and 8 month old baby doesn't exactly leave you with a ton of extra energy.

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gortexcondom t1_jcd6leb wrote

Another comment you were complaining you don’t have a good enough job to afford a snowblower. An accountant working 16 hours a day should be doing just fine…

Before I was on the team of people that was confused to why everyone was being so harsh on you. Now I’m starting to think yeah, maybe you should be bullied a little bit.

Get to shoveling.

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pm-me-egg-noods t1_jcd9ez4 wrote

There's more than one perspective here. As someone who unashamedly uses a service for driveway plowing:

Sure, we could buy a tractor or a plow for our truck. All of which would mean we sent our money out of state/paid a corporation/paid interest on a loan for years. We'd also then have to service, maintain, and safely operate said equipment, all of which is a bit of a learning curve.

Or...crazy idea...we could pay our neighbor, who provides a service for a living, and keep him and his money in state. Even if one time he got stuck in our driveway and had to come back with more equipment, or if one time he booked a vacation (probably months in advance) and gambled wrong about the big storms being over for the year.

We would expect notice that he was gonna be gone...but FFS people. OP isn't asking for a handout, they're trying to hire a professional.

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Jazzhandsfolkfeet OP t1_jcda1mw wrote

I wasn’t going to respond anymore but one repeated point being made is ignorant as shit. 3ft of snow, 200ft driveway, 12ft wide path is 7,200 cubic feet of snow.

A snow shovel holds approximately 1.5 cubic feet of snow. If it takes an average of 4 seconds to complete a single shovel, then it would take me over 5.3 hours of non-stop shoveling without a break to create a path just wide enough for a car (never mind the rest of my driveway). That’s also over 100,000 lbs of snow.

Anyone with the word shovel in their post, post a picture of how much snow you shoveled today.

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suzi-r t1_jcdak4y wrote

I don’t disagree with your premise at all, just the method. I don’t think it’s wise to advertise to the outer world that you have cash. It’s asking for a rip-off, kinda like posting on your local listserv that you’ll be away for the winter. Maybe it doesn’t happen in your neighborhood, but in mine, there are those who go round offering to do odd jobs, and in the process they’re casing your place. This parent is somewhat vulnerable, tending to someone even more vulnerable, and in need for help to feel safe. My suggestion to ask people in the community who can recommend someone reliable to plow for them seems less likely to bring in someone bent on crime. My neighbor (who lives alone) called on someone who advertised roof-raking (not a local, but from the next state just over the border); at her invitation, he showed up to talk specifics and view her roof. She found his manner inconsistent with his supposed purpose (he barely looked at her roof) and had an uneasy feeling about him when he could not come up with a fee or a reference or say he was insured. After he left, she asked our local law enforcement if they recognized his name and learned that there’s an outstanding warrant for him in his home state which can’t be acted upon unless he commits a crime here. She did not hire him. Best bet for someone to work for you is to ask someone reliable who can recommend someone who is reliable. It’s also a good way to get to know your own community.

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SchmeddyBallz t1_jcdftjn wrote

I never said most people outsource plowing. I said most people are used to dealing with snow.

What I was implying was that without someone to plow, most people would decide to shovel themselves in an emergency.

You're reading into what I said incorrectly.

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Decembergardener t1_jcdhwbx wrote

Well I have shoveled while wearing babies on my back many times. (For real actually. Gotta do what you gotta do but obviously not everyone is physically capable of doing that.) You can also bundle them up and put them in a sled and let them watch. It’s not that cold out.

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andrews301xrd t1_jcdidbu wrote

LOL I shoveled my 70 meter driveway today because I had the day off work and wanted to get out and enjoy the sunshine, and I have a skidsteer parked in the garage. Hopefully OP has figured out their dilemma and realizes a vast majority of Vermonters are able to be self sufficient in all expected conditions, like sugar storms in mid March. Keeping fuel tanks full, having water and dry food on hand, shovels, generators, firewood, et all are standard operating procedures for winter in VT. Also, getting out and trying goes a long way, I had two guys stop when they saw me shoveling to see I wanted them to swipe the driveway.

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tomsbradys t1_jcditaq wrote

Me and my finance shoveled yesterday. Because our plow guy wasn’t coming until today, part of being a responsible adult and parent is not relying on anyone for anything. I’m sure there are very charitable people in Vermont that will help you out…. Posting this on your towns community Facebook page would get you results I bet. More importantly when you get out of your stuck situation go to the hardware store buy at least a shovel. It sucks that’s why most of us who work in this weather and then come home and move the snow themselves hate this season. Lol

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kraysys t1_jcdku5j wrote

Sure, but it’s a job that can provide the savings to purchase a used snow blower, is my point. In another comment OP was complaining about working a low paying job that didn’t make that possible.

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Embemk t1_jcdlqoo wrote

Don’t think the issue was that he took a vacation. It’s that he didn’t warn customers so they could make prior arrangements for when he was gone. That’s kind of common courtesy.

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whaletacochamp t1_jcdmklj wrote

Auto delivery will never leave you in a situation where you’re going to run out if you’re a day or even a week late. Also not everyone has auto delivery.

This is the most prudent advice for this person at this point. I’d say it’s very vermont to not beat around the bush.

Love, Grampa

Now get off my lawn unless you’re gonna shovel.

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gaytigger t1_jcdo3ok wrote

have you found someone yet? i might have someone who would do if for a couple bucks

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typicalcollegegrad t1_jcdt2ck wrote

I do completely agree they should own a shovel, or better yet a snow blower. But that's beside the point. OP asked for help finding someone to plow their driveway, and instead of offering help you chose to be deliberately obtuse

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aja09 t1_jcdxp5g wrote

Oh different kind of plowing.

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z50rking2 t1_jcemdf1 wrote

Grab a shovel and start working. Ask your neighbors for help

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CardinalPuff-Skipper t1_jceoxsm wrote

I’m sorry this happened OP. I had a similar situation happen in the Valentine’s Day storm of 2007. Our plow guy quit and we were stuck with a 1500’ driveway under 45.”. I had a toddler and a very pregnant wife at the time. This happened to me 16 years ago and the trauma is very much with me today. We all have our ways of getting through winter. My take away is to not rely upon others to get out anymore. I’m the only one that I can really count on when the chips are down.

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Chance_Phone4013 t1_jceubuf wrote

I have a 200ft driveway with a four car landing at the top. It takes 45 minutes to snowblow it. I do it every time it snows. Last year the blower was down and we got a heavy storm, we shoveled 5'×200' to the road so we could get a car out. It took a few hours and it was hard work, but you gotta do what you gotta do.

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Chance_Phone4013 t1_jceww5z wrote

I don't know why you're getting down voted. We live in a rural area on a tough road that wreakers can't make it up until it's plowed and sanded. when the guests at the Airbnb down the road get stuck, we tell them to "walk to the farm at the bottom of the hill, ask for Dan." He's got a tractor and is always excited to help/ rib some flatlanders about not having snow tires while he pulls them out. (Without ever asking for anything but a thank you. )

People in this thread are barking about community but are to afraid to knock on their neighbors doors. I'm positive if this guy talked to even one of his neighbors his driveway would have been cleared in no time. Instead he decided to get roasted on Reddit.

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Astroisbestbio t1_jcexujp wrote

Its hard for some people. My dad is recovering from a hernia, my mom is in physical therapy because her knees aren't working correctly and she's like a few months out from possible knee replacement, and my fiance has bad asthma. That leaves our 200 ft, very steep, driveway to me, recovering from covid, with nerve damage in both shoulders.

We have a contract, and he's awesome and a neighbor. If he just decided right before a big storm to leave with no warning, I'd be just as pissed. Not everyone can do that kind of physical labor, nevermind doing it safely. They use tractors to plow our driveway, we got 4 ft of snow this storm.

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Odd-Philosopher5926 t1_jceyyfl wrote

People move here complaining about having to shovel snow is a special kind of idiocy to me. My reaction will never change to hearing people complain about things that a region is known for. It’s like moving to Seattle and complaining about your stuff getting wet because of the rain. Just stop it.

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Astroisbestbio t1_jcezpdd wrote

If you have a contract with a plow company, it is not unreasonable to be upset that they go away on vacation right before a major storm, without warning and without setting up alternates. Same goes for any other contract you would have.

And again, you can have medical issues, problems with health as a senior, things happen. Should I let my 90 year old neighbor suffer and possibly die just because they knew what living here would entail? They are natives. Lived here 3 generations. Or is that not enough for you?

Again, even natives can get sick or injured, and they get old. I'm glad your 75 year old neighbor is lucky enough to be healthy enough to do it, but not everyone ages as well. Bitch about leaf peepers driving like shit, bitch about tourists peeing in electrical closets because they don't like that there's no bathroom but an outhouse, but don't complain when someone is upset because their plow guy ditched them right before a major once in a few decades storm when they have an infant.

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BasicallyBanananas t1_jcf08sr wrote

I walked mine with snow shoes. Couldn't stand shoveling that beast by hand again.

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they_have_no_bullets t1_jcf54lj wrote

advertising that you are willing to pay for plowing services does not make you any more of a target than putting out garbage buckets proves you were able to afford trash service. it's a bit absurd. this is not a display of wealth

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Outrageous-Outside61 t1_jcf8j9i wrote

Glad you found someone, I was gonna offer to come up after reading everyone’s comments. Only thing I’ll give you shit about is the use of meters. Next you’ll be like my brother using Communism degrees instead of Freedom degrees.

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RiddleofSteel t1_jcft31b wrote

Totally get it, but on the Long Island sub for instance if someone asked for help like this you'd get one jerk response and mostly helpful. Seems the opposite here.

Also seems like anytime I've asked about places to bring my family on vacation in Vermont or made the mistake of asking about a place to move there I got all nasty responses. Just reeks of xenophobia and small mindedness and to be honest it's disappointing because I always saw Vermont as the friendlier and more open minded version of New Hampshire. Instead you guys come off like a bunch of angry southern rednecks who think you are your own country.

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Regular_Sentence5277 t1_jcfwx2t wrote

Two things - One - Yes find another person to plow - Two - You may want to get out and start to shovel.

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ResponsibleExcuse727 t1_jcg136t wrote

Also the xenophobia is a little warranted. Vermont is becoming a place everyone wants to move to with not many houses. Creating bidding wars on homes paying 200-300k over appraisal value. Forces reappraisals and eventually raises everyone’s property taxes. It’s kind of just how the world works these days but as a townie Vermonter you can kind of understand where they’re coming from.

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somedudevt t1_jcg3pwd wrote

No I offered a permanent solution which is not reliant on others. It’s Vermont. If you can’t shovel your driveway you shouldn’t live here. End of story. And if your driveway is too long to shovel then you should own a tractor or big snow blower. Imagine if the thing wasn’t snow… they post on here our house cleaner left town without telling us and now our trash is piling up and the sink is filled and flowing over. We would tell them to do the dishes and take out the trash. This is no different. My lawn guy left town and now my lawn is too high we would say go mow the fucking thing. No different. A person should be able to on their own (unless elderly or disabled) maintain the inside of their house and the outside. Specialty things like carpentry or plumbing hire someone, but if it’s a task that a 9 year old neighbor kid does for $10 then it’s a task that any homeowner should be able to do without help.

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IndigoHG t1_jcg4sui wrote

OP I see you're all set, but next time if you have a landline/cell phone, call your local town clerk/neighbor/road crew boss and see i they have any names for you.

I'm glad everything worked out (and I hope my driveway gets plowed next!)

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mikefromdeluxebury t1_jcgfio4 wrote

Wow. Lots of tools in the comment section lecturing someone asking for help… Real Vermonters just help. Come on folks.

Glad you found said assistance, OP! I’m over past Waterbury, but could always refer some trusty friends your way if it’s ever an issue again!

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endeavour3d t1_jchk07w wrote

I can assure you the majority of dickbags that post here only say shit like this because they can get away with it, I've had neighbors help with my snowed in driveway many times completely unsolicited, people are generally friendly and helpful here, one post on Front Porch Forum will get a ton of helpful responses immediately from my experiences.

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HomeOnTheMountain_ t1_jcjv9tq wrote

The replies here are more evidence of the low quality of Reddit than a reflection on Vermont. The internet isn't a real place. Your neighborhood is though.

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whaletacochamp t1_jckkb5y wrote

Karma got me good on this spicy comment of mine. SInce then my plow and snowblower both broke, and my propane delivery did not come lol.

But I'm ready with backup wood heat, already fixed the snowblower, and have parts on teh way for the plow.

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